Oh well.. here i am again spewing till my heart's content - my opinions n my sole say on how i see certain things... Things - dat might not bother u d least... bt i kindda find it a lil disturbing..
I TRULY APOLOGISE IF D FORTH CONTENT OFFENDS U...
NOTHING PERSONAL.... REALLY..
IT'S NOT MEANT TO TARGET ANYONE...
NOR IS IT A CONDEMNATION..
I'M JUZ BEIN' OPINIONATED..
(NOTE: u have been warned. no hard feelings, aite, everyone?)
Ever so often, nowadays, i'm shocked by news of friends or acquintances, young adults like myself, being Pregnant..
Pregnant-pregnant is fine... but pregnant unwillingly, unwanted, unwed... Ahhhh... THAT'S a total shocker...
But somehow or rather, the compelling news has been cropping up so often everywhere n can happen to anyone, that somehow d shock impact is no longer there.. Till u're so immune to d word "pregnant-unwed."
In this modern times, there's so many ppl to guide this young teenagers through this tough time and helping them get their life's back on track.. & dengan pertolongan ini jugak la yang dapat 'memujuk' ibu bapa menerime anak2 ni... Accepting the mistakes and movin' on...
Think it thru.....
Zaman dulu: D kid's would be kicked outta d house..
Unaccepted..
Disowned..
Shameful cos it's sinful..
Zaman sekarang: Family's there to support...
Accept..
Forgive but probably can't (neva eva) forget..
Move on wif life...
(how times have indeed changed tremendously.... n man, is my generation lucky!)
Yes, there's pro's to this approach of handling the situation..
"Everybody makes mistakes"
We move on... live on...
& hopin' neva to disappoint again...
But, have u EVER tot of d con's?? Ever?
For those few who know no regrets.
(i didnt apply this in general ok? read it right!)
(i was tinkin' in their shoes.. that i find this logical, practical...)
The level of acceptance and tolerance has shot up d wall... that i tink.. if i were one of these teenager's.. I would definitely take advantage of the situation.
No Doubt about it! I would.. really
Look at it this way..
'If i were to stumble and be in this situation, i'll only suffer for the initial period. Worse to worse, parent's will scream n shout, nag non-stop!! But after a lil counselling, they'll learn to accept n i'm able 2 lead my old life again.. it won't even affect my future (if i dun even have one in d 1st place, wat does it matter, rite).. They'll juz let it past. Omost as if, this hiccup neva even occur!
So this mistakes aren't that fatal, afterall..'
Wat's d purpose of Sex education anyway?? --- To freakin' EDUCATE, mind you!
But how come... the more they now they're not suppose to commit, they violate? Violate it more n more till it become contagious.. Till a trend, like this current moment, is born!
Why? Why? Why the commonness?
Yes, i know u'd say i'm rambling about empty nothing's.. If we're in a western country or of a different belief/religion, i have no right to preach cos it's a born culture.. Pregnant first....marry later... No biggie...
But what i still don't understand... is how my people, sad to say, is ignorant about d consequences..
Resist d temptation, my ladies... N guys.. hold ur horses.. Screw d wall if u have to.. Please...
For those who repent - Good for you
& neva 4get those who sacrificed..
For those who haven - May God bless U...
Dedicated to the lil life's lost along the way. May your souls rest in peace.